I'm just nervous because last time this happened I ended up getting really hurt. I try to keep my heart guarded but with some people I just can't help it and I just don't want to go through that again. But know I can't hide forever so I'm trying again... We'll see how it goes.
I know, but just try extra hard & when you feel like you’re slipping, think of how much it hurt last time! Good luck!
There's this girl on tumblr who I have some friends in common with. We talked a little but it was just like about school and nothing too deep. I deactivated my tumblr a week ago and two days later, she friended me on facebook and said she wanted to keep in touch somehow. I really like her, but I don't know.. she has a boyfriend of 4 years. Am I reading too much into it?
Erks, that just screams caution. If she has a boyfriend of 4 years don’t look too much into that. Trust me. Being with someone that long, the relationship becomes complicated. Maybe she’s just restless and looking for a little excitement, it happens when youre in a relationship that long, but I promise you that if she’s been with him that long, her heart is tied to him in a way that you can’t understand. I wouldn’t get involved if I were you, but that’s just my advice.
So I like this girl that's about 3 years older than me. We have been flirting a bit and I think she likes me too. I just don't want to be played with/used. Meaning I don't want to be just some girl she likes to flirt with. How can I see if it will ever actually be anything without rushing into things?
Well you can’t really know for sure without riding it out, seeing where it leads. But there’s always small things you can notice. Little signs that she shows when you guys hang out or whatever. I wouldn’t rely on that though, sometimes people send signals they don’t mean to. I would just wait it out, and keep your heart guarded until you’re sure she’s a good apple. Good luck :3
I came out to my parents the day after Christmas. I thought it would make me feel wonderful and empowered and free. It did for a few days. But now I feel as just as alone and empty as before and I don't know what to do about it.